Signs You Are Dating Your Best Friend

• • YOU FEEL YOUR TRUE SELF

You know you are going to be equally desired whether you wear a $800 suit  or a 25$ Nike shirt on, and you have probably seen your significant other with no make up on, ponytail and sweatpants and you still find her completely attractive.

• YOUR PARTNER TURNS YOU ON SO MUCH, YOU CAN’T HELP BUT TO HAVE SEX.. A LOT

Let’s face it, sex is a very important part of a healthy relationship, and you feel like your significant other doesn’t take it as a “chore” but you both enjoy it equally which makes it even better because you are turned on by the way you turn her/him on

• SUDDENLY, YOU FEEL THE BEST YOU’VE EVER FELT IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE

A great partner always points out your strengths not your weaknesses and she/he has no problem by letting you know, which makes you more confident and happier with your life.

 

• YOU HAVE A LOT OF DIFFERENCES, YET YOU ARE SO AMAZED OF HOW ALIKE YOU GUYS ARE.

Yes, your partner may like chick flicks, whether you like a good action movie or you have different hobbies; however, what matters the most is the overall view in your life. Careers, financial goals, family, kids is what should be alike because its what truly matters. It’s okay for your partner to have a different hobby than you because you guys also need time to be apart and miss each other.

• EVERYONE IS ON THE SAME PAGE

Whether your partner wants to get married in the next 5 years, doesn’t kids or to have a title in your relationship; both of you should know where you are standing. Neither of you are mind-readers so, if you want to take it to the next level, you need to let your partner know what your needs/wants are. There is nothing worse than miscommunication in a relationship. It’s just a deal-breaker!

• THE COMMUNICATION BETWEEN YOU TWO IS HONEST AND OPEN

You feel like you can tell your partner anything because you know you won’t be judged, and she/he will do the same because the feeling is mutual

 

• YOU GUYS ARE IMPERFECT, BUT PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER

You know you are far from perfect, but in your eyes, she/he is the closest thing from perfect and you admire your partner for it

 

• YOU SPEND TIME TOGETHER DOING THINGS YOU BOTH ENJOY

You guys may have differences, but they are so many things you both enjoy doing together which makes it 1000x better!

 

• IT’S AN SPOKEN RULE OF WHO BRINGS THE WEED AND WHO BRINGS THE WINE

You know perfectly your partner is going to show up with a blunt (or three) for a movie night, or shows up with the biggest bottle of red wine in her/his bag. It’s just a fucking GIVEN!

 

• YOU HAVE FIGHTS, BUT ITS PRODUCTIVE TOWARD YOUR RELATIONSHIP

We all have disagreements! Trust me, you don’t want to have  a person who agrees with everything you say. Nobody wants a poppet.. So, arguing just fortifies your relationship making it even tighter than it was before because without knowing, you both are compromising more and more.

 

• HE/SHE MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON

Your partner is very passionate with her/his career and you cannot help but to look for the same, or he/she likes to be in shape, so you try to hit the gym or eat healthier which makes you want to do it for yourself.

 

• YOU GUYS MAKE OUT A LOT

It is psychologically proven that couples who kiss more, tend to have a longer, healthier relationship and that is because making out is one of the most important signs of passion and attraction between a couple. YES, it is more passionate than having sex because you can make out while having sex and feel the passion, but do you feel the same passion when you have sex without making out?.

 

• YOU MISS YOUR PARTNER WHEN HE/SHE IS GONE

Ok, your partner is out of town for work or visiting family members, and you cannot help but to text and wanting to FaceTime all the time. You just can’t wait to be with each other again!

 

• SLEEPING WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER ISN’T THE SAME.

Sleeping alone in a big bed isn’t as nice anymore ever since you started loving waking up next to your partner, or feeling SO good with his/her hand trying to hold you in the middle of the night.

 

• A PART OF YOUR LIFE DOESN’T INVOLVE HER/HIM AND YOUR PARTNER IS COMPLETELY FINE WITH IT

It’s completely OK with your partner knowing there is a side of your activities that doesn’t involve her/him. Whether you want to go to dancing classes, girls/guys night out, she is ok with you having your “ME” time.

 

• YOU BOTH GIVE EQUALLY

The most tiring part of a relationship who is not right for you, is the one where you give give and give without getting anything in return. Well, your current relationship is far from it! You know your partner will spoil you and you feel like doing the same back.

 

• YOU PARTNER COMPLIMENTS YOU

Your partner is the first one to notice when you lose weight, or if you new haircut looks good on you. Whether is the most minimal thing, your partner isn’t shy to let you know how good your legs look or your butt.

 

• YOUR FRIENDS ASK IF YOUR PARTNER HAS A SIBLING THEY COULD DATE.

Your friends start noticing how good your partner treats you that they even start asking if they have any siblings they could date. (since they probably think it runs in the family)

 

• YOU GUYS STARTED TO SOUND ALIKE

You’ve caught yourself saying the same words, quotes or even certain accent your partner uses/has. It’s inevitable to start becoming more alike!

• YOU ARE IN A BETTER MOOD WHEN YOUR “BEST FRIEND” IS AROUND

Have you noticed you are in a better mood when you wake up with your partner by your side? Has people told you how much happier you are now? It is because this person can’t help but to make you a happier person overall.

 

• THE TWO OF YOU ARE WILLING TO COMPROMISE IN ORDER TO MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY.

She doesn’t like football, but she watches it for you, or you get her tickets to see that stupid movie she’s dying to watch; no fuzz no arguments, you both know you are willing to do these type of things because your partner is as willing as you are to make each other happy

 

• YOU RESPECT EACH OTHER

Sometimes arguments can get heated, but both of you know when to walk away to cool off, and you both do it because you don’t want to say something that could hurt the other.

• YOU HAVE MORE FUN TOGETHER THAN WITH ANY OTHER PERSON

Yeah, your partner lets you have your “own” time, yet, you want to spend it with your significant other, just because your partner is in fact your best friend and you know you would have more fun with her/him than your other friends.

 

• WHEN YOU LOOK AT YOUR FUTURE, YOUR PARTNER IS IN YOUR MIND.

If you ever went to a very nice place or a beach where there is a couple getting married and wondered whether your partner would like to get married there, then HE/SHE IS THE ONE! There is nothing more fortifying in a relationship than to plan your future with your partner and that is because your subconscious knows you want this person in your future or your entire life and you wouldn’t want it any other way because what’s better than to spend your whole life with your best friend?